The Connection Drift Quiz
Measure how far closeness has slipped in a long relationship — and what's holding it there.
7 questions · 90 seconds · free · results on screen immediately.
Take this if any of it lands
- You're good partners and barely lovers anymore.
- Conversations are efficient, warm, and completely surface.
- Nothing is wrong, which is exactly what makes it hard to name.
- You can't remember the last time either of you reached first.
What it measures
Daily contact quality
Whether your everyday exchanges still carry warmth or only logistics.
Repair capacity
How fast the two of you come back after friction — the strongest predictor of the rest.
Roommate index
How much of the relationship now runs on schedule rather than choice.
Bid response
What happens when one of you reaches — met, missed, or quietly declined.
What you get at the end
- How far the drift has actually gone
- The mechanism keeping it in place
- The smallest move that reverses direction
Frequently asked questions
Is drift the same as falling out of love?
Almost never. Drift is an attention problem far more often than a feelings problem — which is why it responds quickly to the right change.
Can I take it if my partner won't?
Yes. One person changing how they show up moves the system. That's the whole premise.
How long is it?
Seven questions, about 90 seconds, results immediately.
What if the result is bad?
It's a read, not a verdict. Every result comes with a first move — that's the point of taking it.